One
year after her wedding in October 2010, Mrs. Adefemi Omolere, 32, was
hopeful for a child. With strong optimism, cries and prayers, she
eventually conceived after waiting for a whole year.
The prayer of every couple, especially
newlyweds, is to have children who will be a source of joy and happiness
to them. This was once the testimony of 35-year-old Mr. Segun Omolere
and his wife, Adefemi, when their union produced a baby girl on June 7,
2013.
Their joy knew no bounds when Adefemi was
delivered of a baby girl but that joy was dampened shortly when the
baby, Eniola, was discovered to have a hole in the heart seven months
after birth.
Adefemi said neither she nor her husband suspected that the baby had any ailment.
She said, “My husband and I didn’t know
anything was wrong with her until she was seven months old when some
neighbours and family friends suggested that we should take her to the
hospital for medical check-up because they felt she had stunted growth. I
didn’t know because she is my first child, so I started observing her.
“My fears grew when I observed that her
breathing was fast, rapid and not deep enough. I also observed that she
was always feeling hot even when everyone else complained of cold.
“She couldn’t sleep in the afternoon and
even at nights, she would wake up at intervals and she laboured to
breathe. That was when I knew that something was wrong.”
Adefemi explained that she took her child
to a private hospital but was told that she could not be admitted for
proper diagnosis because there was no vacant bed space.
But the baby was later referred to the
University College Hospital, Ibadan where she was eventually admitted
and diagnosed with a hole in the heart.
According to the medical report signed
by Dr. Alohan on behalf of the Consultant Pediatric Cardiologist at UCH,
Dr. Ogunkunle O. O., Eniola was diagnosed with “poor weight gain since
birth and recurrent breathlessness of four months duration.
Echocardiography showed a large ventricular septal defect (12.6mm) with a
double outlet,” the report stated.
Adefemi holds a Higher National Diploma
in Accountancy from The Polytechnic Ibadan but she has remained
unemployed since her graduation in 2010.
She said while their stay in the hospital
lasted, she was troubled because she had no idea of what could have
been wrong with her baby.
She prayed and prayed, hoping that her girl would suddenly become normal and healthy again overnight.
But more gloomy news came after an
echocardiography was performed, Eniola was eventually diagnosed with “a
large Ventricular Septal Defect (12.6mm) with a double outlet.”
The doctor’s report stated that Eniola
had experienced poor weight gain since birth and recurrent
breathlessness of four months duration.
VSD, according to findings, is a common
congenital heart defect, which is an abnormal opening in the septum
dividing the ventricles that allows blood to pass directly from the left
to the right ventricle and large openings may cause congestive heart
failure.
Adefemi, while fighting back tears as she
narrated the story to our correspondent, said she almost collapsed when
she heard the report.
“When I was told that there was a hole
in her heart, I started crying and wailing. I could not sleep for days; I
kept crying. I felt sorry that she had been in pain all this while. But
I took solace in the fact that she wasn’t dead and the ailment was
curable even though my husband and I don’t have the money to pay for the
treatment.
“We were then directed to a heart
foundation for a review and possible surgical intervention in India. It
was the foundation that helped us to estimate the total cost of the
treatment, administrative, accommodation, travel and miscellaneous
expenses if we were to take her to India for treatment at N2.5m.”
Adefemi and her husband, Segun, could not
believe what had just befallen them. They informed their pastor who
prayed for them and referred them to the Lagos State University Teaching
Hospital, Lagos for another diagnosis for verification. Again, the sad
news was delivered to them but with a recommendation to take her to
India for proper treatment “before it’s too late.”
“We had to plead with the doctor who
treated her to help in contacting a medical centre in India so as to
know the cost. So, the estimate from the Indian hospital came later,”
Adefemi said.
According to the doctor’s report obtained
by our correspondent, Eniola has a “Congenital Heart Disease, DORV with
PAH and requires Intracardiac Repair.”
The approximate cost of the surgery
including the hospital and ICU stay was put at $8,000 (about
N1,240,000). This however does not cover travelling, accommodation and
miscellaneous expenses.
Feeding and meeting their other expenses
almost became a problem because, according to Adefemi, moving from one
hospital to another was not pocket-friendly as they barely had anything
left.
Amid tears, she said, “Even now, our
house rent will expire next month and we don’t know how to raise the
money because everything we have has gone into Eniola’s treatment and my
husband is also looking for job. This has affected and stripped us of
everything.”
Adefemi said that she had to sell some of
her belongings at ridiculous prices to raise some money to buy drugs
and sustain the family since the little money she and her husband made
from their small shop was not enough. She appealed to individuals and
organisations to help them in saving the life of the 10-month old baby
before it is too late.
Adefemi, who is Eniola’s mother, can be reached on 08056148034.
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